I was born and raised in Katlehong. Got married to the love of my life at the age of 27. The journey of our married life was a blessing. We were blessed with 2 beautiful daughters. After 14 years of marriage my husband became a Pastor and I became a Pastor’s wife, and a new phase in my life that required a side to I never knew existed begun. As does the a thief in the night. Death stole my husband from me and instantly became a widow after 23 years of marriage. A different side of me is now called upon. This phase of my life is teaching me that I am independent of the roles I have played as a wife, mother, and a Pastor’s wife. It is also teaching me about who God is in my life despite my circumstances. My eyes are now opened to God’s sovereignty a new self is being revealed and cultivated daily.